Misc Seer / What one has to do

Yearly Karthigai

Money for purchase of பொரி, அகல் விளக்கு to sisters

Yearly Pongal

Brothers to give Pongal பணம் (Or, if in local, தாம்பூலம், பூ, பழம், கரும்பு, மஞ்சள் கொத்து) to sisters 

At the time of death of Sambanthi (In laws of daughter / sister)

For First Grakiyam

Ring for Mappillai

Dress for Daughter/Sister, brother in law/Son in law, their children

Paruppu Thengaai

For First year Grakiyam

Dress for Daughter/Sister, brother in law/Son in law, their children

Paruppu Thengaai

Death of Sister

            Saree before cremation

Death of brother in law

            Saree for sister on 10^th day

Meals expense of 10^th day after death to be borne by daughter of deceased